Lesson 3 :Girly tips for school success

 Lesson 3 :Girly tips for school success

 

l Wear whatever you want as long as it's dress code appropriate; it's important that you feel your best but at the same time. There's no one “right” way to dress and everyones style is different which is what makes it beautiful.

.Focus on feeling like yourself and comfortable  rather than chasing futile trends which are always changing or worrying what others think.

 I can assure you that the energy you bring and how you treat people prevails at the end as well as the fact that contrary to tiktok you can outfit repeat-noone cares-you will see peoples effort decreasing as the weeks go on.

 l Its okay to make mistakes,trust me if your feeling awkward and embarassed just remember your not the only one to feel that way.

People value authenticity and noones perfect so don’t try to come across as flawless as that is exhausting and unrealistic

 Learning from errors is far more valuabe than living in a illusion of perfection where you pretend your flaws are non-existent and don’t actually grow into a better version of yourself.

 l Let loose and enjoy this new chapter,I know from experience that this is easier said than done but the truth is that One regret I have from my time in secondary school   uk or middle/high school is that I wish id let myself have more fun with my friends and family and not been so rigid and academia focused

-after all your only a teenager once.

Its important to work hard,but don’t forget to enjoy these years because once its done you move on to a whole different environment like applying and preparing for university or jobs.

The best memories from school isnt just about getting good grades or winning awards  but also the times you spend with your  friends,laughing,exploring and chatting or time you spent with your family on the weekend.

 l  Stay focused and organised-  It is exremely important to be dedicated in everything you do as even without the motivation on certain days your focus and hardwork will persevere and your efforts will not be in vain.

However don’t burn yourself out so set achievable goals and start early.See learning and studying as fun,view it in a positive light and be grateful for the opportunity that many others around the world don’t have as knowledge really is gratifying.

Stay tuned for my slaying studying guide

 l Be kind and approachable is something we should all strive to be recognised as.

Theres no harm in basic manners like smiling,saying thankyou,being attentive and having basic empathy.

Not only  does it help establish genuine connections but psychologically theres something called the embodied cognition-where even if your not feeling great a smile or an act of kindness can boost your mood by releasing feel-good hormones like seretonin and oxytocin.

It also  also enables people to value your prescence and can lead to a strong support network when you need help and despite how small it is it still contributes towards the world being a happier place.I

I  have also wrote  detailed guides on how to make friends here and how to be more social even as an introvert without you feeling drained.

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