Lesson 6-How to have an edge in school fights

 Lesson 6-How to have an edge in school fights

Interrogation/Barrister/Courtroom Method-used when someone is framing or accusing you infront of a crowd.

 -Pause-recollect your emotions and breathe in and out,don’t rush to defend yourself immediately,that pause will unsettle them becaue theyre expecting you to get really hysterical.-

-Using Silence as a weapon,makes liars nervous  because they expect a fight,the longer you wait,the longer they get flustered.

-”The proof” question ask calmly then repeat-appear unbothered and not interested

-if they deflect keep asking proof and undermine their lousy excuses with factual evidence which you will exploit to undermine their credibility.

You don’t need to say your lying its already obvious-strange that you didn’t do this or you didn’t do that or you’re the only person who remembers

-Phrase questions as yes or no so their response is limited.

-Pin down detail,the more you demand,the more its harder to stay in control

-Start Broad to allow them to commit to a version and then tighten the net with cracks.

 Grey rock-stratergy-staying boring,neutral and composed--If silence hasn’t worked, and theres no crowd and no need to prove your innocence and theyre just triying to annoy you.

-It neutralises drama and starves others of the reaction they were hoping for

-Protects your energy and keeps you composed

-People who thrive on conflict lose interest

-Saying okay,not really into this convo sorry,im a bit occupied right now,bye ive got better things to be doing than taking to you right now.

 

Waterbottle Stratergy-if things are getting heated and you don’t want to get physical-and uncivilised

-Speed adds shock-take them by surprise

-Keep it playful and neutral-to avoid getting in bigger trouble.

-Only use as self-defence and don’t do it aggresively and only in emergencies and absoloute necesities where you don’t want to use violence.However if it is necessary to use violence then by all means-fight but ensure its proportionate to be safe.

-Additional tips

 -Dont swear or use foul language-we need to stay classy not trashy and we don’t need to undemrine our credibility whereas we can get our point across by not resorting to unintelligent language.

-Keep tone and body language in control-to remain in control and dominant aswell as more reliable

-Think before you speak

-Dont use cringey and weird comebacks-its embarrasing and not worth it

-Youlle always leave a fight feeling a tinge of annoyance that you didn’t say something so its okay to not say anything-frame your mindset if you want to avoid saying too much in anger.

-Dont let anger get the best of you-it looks ugly

-If you cant outfightthem  then outsmart them-don’t play the game they want you to play-remember these people crave for attention and a reaction-dont give it to them,show that you have bigger priorities

-Stay calm-deep breaths because even if you arent talking in anger anger has physical manifestations where you can go all red etc,so fake it till you make it.

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